“Why was this fragrant oil wasted? – Mark 14:4
Before the Passover, Jesus and His disciples were at the home of Simon, the leper. As they sat around the table, a woman whom John later identified as Mary, Lazarus’s sister, came with an alabaster jar filled with expensive oil.
As the others watched, she broke the jar and poured the oil on Jesus’ head. It amazes me how some of them reacted. They were moved with great indignation. “Why was this fragrant oil wasted? For it might have been sold for more than three hundred denarii and given to the poor,” they demanded. Didn’t they think that Jesus was worthy of being anointed with costly oil? He was the Messiah. He was the Lamb of God who came to take away the sins of the world. He was their Teacher who came to share the Good News of salvation. Didn’t He deserve this honor? Mark went on to say that they criticized Mary sharply.
Jesus defended Mary. “Let her alone. Why do you trouble her? She has done a good work for Me. For you have the poor with you always, and whenever you wish you may do them good; but Me you do not have always. She has done what she could. She has come beforehand to anoint My body for burial. Assuredly, I say to you, wherever this gospel is preached in the whole world, what this woman has done will also be told as a memorial to her.” This is true. Sermons have been preached about the alabaster jar of oil and there are songs about it. Mary had done a marvelous thing. She had shown that Jesus was to be the Passover Lamb and that’s why she anointed Him.
The disciples failed to see the significance of her actions. They were more concerned with the things of this world. John tells us that Judas Iscariot was those who objected to what Mary did and spoke about giving the money to the poor but he didn’t care about the poor. The poor would not have seen any of that money because Judas was a thief and was stealing from the moneybox (John 12:6). And Jesus made a very good point. The poor would always be around but He wouldn’t be. Mary always seem to know how precious little time she had with the Savior and always made the most of it. She had given Him her best. This was her way of doing something for Jesus–giving Him something that was valuable in gratitude for what He had done for her. While her sister Martha was preoccupied with serving, Mary’s focus was on Jesus.
Before this time Jesus had told His disciples that He would die and be raised up on the third day. Mary knew that Jesus was going to die and she came prepared. She brought oil to anoint Him for His burial. She accepted what the disciples couldn’t bring themselves to acknowledge–the Lord was going to die. The disciples didn’t want to think about this. Mark mentioned that they were afraid to ask Him what He meant (Mark 9:31, 32). It didn’t fit in with their idea of Jesus and His kingdom. They, like many others, believed that Jesus would overthrow the Romans and set up His kingdom. They believed that Jesus’ kingdom was of this world. Some people tried to force the issue (John 6:15). When He was before Pilate, Jesus made it clear, “My kingdom is not of this world. If My kingdom were of this world, My servants would fight, so that I should not be delivered to the Jews; but now My kingdom is not from here” (John 18:36).
The disciples still didn’t get it. In Acts 1:6, they asked Him just before He ascended to Heaven, “Lord, will You at this time restore the kingdom to Israel?” They were still expecting Him to set up an earthly kingdom before He left them. It was perhaps in this kingdom which they argued about who would be the greatest (Mark 9:33, 34). Yet in the kingdom in heaven which Jesus came to set up, greatness has to do with service to others. It is the humble who are exalted, not the great or the proud. Mary is not remembered for any greatness but for a simple yet profound act of love.
Matthew tells us that when Jesus began to show to His disciples that He must go to Jerusalem, and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised the third day, Peter took Him aside and rebuked Him (Matthew 16:21, 22). Peter and the other disciples didn’t want to hear about their Lord, the Son of the living God being killed. On the flip side, Mary who had heard the teachings of Jesus did not recoil in fear of His impending suffering and death. Instead she prepared herself and Him for that moment. And Jesus commended her for her “good work”.
Mary showed such love and devotion to Jesus that it’s a shame she was criticized for it. It occurred to me that some of the people were acting self-righteously. It was as if they were saying, “How could she waste money on expensive oil? I would never do that. I would use the money to help the poor.” Are we the same way? Would we have said to ourselves, “I wouldn’t have done what she did. I would have given that money to help our church to spread the Gospel or to a charity.”
Do we find ourselves criticizing those who, through their actions show their faithfulness and devotion to Christ in ways we might not have thought of? When at church do we find fault with other believers? What should we do instead? What can we learn from this story?
- Always put Jesus first. He is more important than anyone or anything else, even the poor
- Give your best to the Lord
- Expense or cost doesn’t matter when it comes to expressing love for Jesus
- Don’t let criticism discourage you
- Don’t defend yourself. Let the Lord do that
- Love in action
- Don’t be critical of others
- Don’t be self-righteous