love does not parade itself, is not puffed up – 1 Corinthians 13:4
Pride is something God hates. God loves humble people. Love is humble. Jesus gave a fine example of this when He left heaven where He was worshipped by angels to come here on earth. He was humble in appearance. He stayed in modest lodgings, slept outdoors, ate with sinners, outcasts and tried to keep a low profile. He got down on His knees and washed the feet of His disciples. He was their Leader, their Master, yet He served them.
Jesus was teaching them and us that we should never think we are too good to serve others. No task is beneath us. We s hould perform every task to the best of our ability and with humble hearts, always thankful that we are making a difference in someone else’s life. Whenwe see how Jesus, the Son of God, humbled Himself it encourages us to be humble too. It shows us that pride has no part in the ministry of Jesus.
Pride is selfishness while humility is selflessness. While He was washing twelve pairs of feet Jesus commanded the disciples to love one another.
Pride is self love. Humility is love for others. Jesus wants us to serve others in love and humility. Love does not boast. Love does not made a big show. It does not make a spectacle of itself. It does not draw attention to itself or put itself on display for all to admire and praise it. It is not self-important. It is the exact opposite. When you show someone love, do so with a humble heart, not expecting anything in return. Don’t brag about it. Follow the same advice Jesus gave when it comes to doing charitable work.
“Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven. Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, that your charitable deed may be in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly” (Matthew 6:1-4).
Love is not self-serving. It takes pride in serving others. Jesus came to serve. He spent His entire ministry serving others and putting their needs before His own.