“Commit thy works unto the LORD, and thy thoughts shall be established” – Proverbs 16:3
Thoughts. It’s hard not to have thoughts. We have them all the time and there are times when we have thoughts we wish we didn’t have. We have thoughts that take our focus away from God. We worry about all sorts of things. We worry about our health, our jobs, our families, our finances and so many other things. Then anxiety sets in and we become stressed and unable to concentrate on anything else. When we have real problems become so intent in trying to solve them ourselves that when we are unable to find solutions, we become depressed.
We feel defeated and discouraged because we are unable to take care of our families and ourselves. Instead of allowing this to happen, we should remember what Jesus said.
“Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father fees them. Are you not of more value than they? Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? Therefore do not worry, saying ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” (Matthew 6: 25-27, 31-34)
Jesus says here and we know this for a fact, that worrying doesn’t change anything. It only makes things worse. Instead, we should look to God who promised that He would take care of us. Here are complaints we have and God’s responses:
- We say, “It’s impossible.”
- God says, “With Me all things are possible.” (Luke 18:27)
- We say, “I’m exhausted.”
- God says, “Wait on Me. I’ll renew your strength.” (Isaiah 40:31)
- We say, “I can’t go on.”
- God says, “My grace is sufficient for you.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)
- We say, “I don’t know what to do.”
- God says, “I’ll direct you.” (Proverbs 3:6)
- We say, “I can’t do.”
- God says, “You can do all things through Me.” (Philippians 4:13)
- We say, “I can’t make ends meet.”
- God says, “I’ll supply all your needs.” (Philippians 4:19)
- We say, “I can’t handle this.”
- God says, “Give it to Me; I’ll carry it for you.” (Psalm 55:22)
- We say, “I’m all alone.”
- God says, “I will never leave you or forsake you.” (Hebrews 13:5)
We should surrender our minds to God, give Him our troubles and worries and relieve ourselves of unnecessary burdens. We have to remember that God is our Father, a loving Parent who desires to take care of His children. When I worry about something, this is what Jesus says to me:
- “When you are afraid or hurt, close your eyes and you will see My hands reaching out for yours, you put them in Mine and I will raise you up. I will uphold you.”
- I am the Resurrection and the Light. He who believes in Me will have everlasting life. Therefore I will heal you of negative and evil thoughts and restore you in mind, body and spirit.”
- “Focus on Me and not on your real or imagined troubles.”
- “Let your heart not be troubled. Be assured that I will restore it to peace. My peace.”
- “Cast your worries on Me and I will take care of them. Give Me your troubles and in return I will give you My peace.”
- “Have faith and don’t be discouraged.”
- “The Lord takes care of His children. He keeps straight their paths so that they turn neither to the right nor to the left.”
We should ask God to free us from worry and anxiety and to instead, focus on Him and allow His peace to fill our minds, bodies and souls. When we accept that God is in control of our lives and not we ourselves, it makes life so much easier. We will be able to sleep a whole lot better at night and focus on what is important—our relationship with God.
A lot of times we mistakenly believe that people are angry with us or are gossiping about us and oftentimes it is all in our imagination. The imagination could be a very powerful thing. We imagine the worst only to discover that things are not as bad as they seem. More than once I thought someone didn’t seem friendly to me because of my colour or to realise that I was mistaken.
I always remember that Othello thought that Desdemona didn’t love him because he was insecure. He allowed his father in-law’s prejudice and his insecurity to ruin his marriage. He allowed Iago to turn him against his wife and a friend. Destructive thoughts can ruin friendships and relationships. The mind is a battlefield. We are constantly deluged with negative thoughts that we need to terminate before they take hold of us. We should turn our minds to God. We should set our minds on things above, not on things on the earth. (Colossians 3:2)
Whenever we have a negative thought we should counteract it with God’s word. Here are examples of negative thoughts and God’s word:
- Thought: No one loves me.
- God’s Word: “I have loved you with an everlasting love.”
- Thought: I’m nothing, useless, a nobody.
- God’s Word: “Beloved, now we are children of God.” (1 John 3:2)
- Thought: I have no friends.
- God’s Word: “You are My friends if you do whatever I command you.” (John 15:14)
- Thought: My friends say that this dream/idea of mine is impossible.
- God’s Word: “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.” (Mark 10:27)
- Thought: If I do this, my friends and family will not understand.
- God’s word: “My mothers and brothers are those who hear God’s word and put it into practice.” (Luke 8:21) And “Whoever acknowledges Me before men, the Son of Man will also acknowledge him before the angels of God.” (Luke:12:8)
We should hand our worries and doubts over to Jesus in exchange for His peace. He told us not to let our hearts be troubled. Worrying only makes things worse. Jesus wants us to enjoy our lives. He said, “I am come that they might have life, and that they might have [it] more abundantly” – John 10:10. Let us not waste any more precious time worrying.